Somebody give me something nasty to say back to this eBay member... He is asking for it.?

How are you trying to make deals outside of eBay? He posted an ad, you made a bid. You could have bid ten dollars; this is eBay - you can bid however much you want. He had no right to respond to you that way. If he doesn't like how much you bid, he should just wait for other bids to come in.